Lent 2013: Day 13 & 14

Lent Day 13:  

This dude has a "40 days Random Acts of Kindness" blog and he gives some examples for, Random Acts of Kindness.  Here they are:

Unsure how to get started? Here are a few ideas to help:

1. Write a note of appreciation to your mailman
2. Compliment a stranger sincerely
3. Write a thank you note to someone
4. Look for something around you that can be fixed up, picked up, or attended ie, put shopping carts up, pick up some trash laying around, pick up something that has fallen over
5. Give a lottery ticket to a stranger
6. Send handmade cards or a letter to someone you care for
7. Write a note to management or someone who has treated you nice while doing their job (waiter, clerk, sales person…etc.)
8. When you go somewhere to get or do something, ask someone around you if you can pick up, drop off or do something for them while you do
9. Cut coupons out and leave them at the grocer register for others
10. Cut an article out of the newspaper that would interest a friend and mail it to them.
11. Leave have a nice day stickers at a front desk
12. Put together a writing kit with stationery, envelopes and stamps, pen and give to hospital/nursing home
13. Put a comment on someone’s webpage that you really like…… let them know you enjoy it
14. Send a card to someone in the military overseas
15. Start a conversation up with a co-worker that you don’t know
16. Leave something cheery or nice for all your co-workers (in spring bag of seeds, fun post its, fun office supplies)
17. Put change in a row of vending machines
18. Visit a nursing home. Spend time visiting with someone who doesn’t get visitors
19. Put something you no longer need on Craig’s list free spot for your area
20. Leave something for someone at an area where it most might be used, (lighter near smoking area, book in reading area, umbrella near door on rainy day)
21. Leave a book you have already finished somewhere for someone else to read.
22. Drop off a toy or game at a hospital
23. Drop off a toy or game at a homeless shelter.
24. At post office leave some extra stamps at the stamp machine.
25. Send a picture you have taken which includes a friend and send it to them with a note remembering when it was taken
26. Buy a phone card and give to a homeless shelter for them to give to someone.
27. Open the phone book, pick a name, and send them something (movie tickets, thank you card, you are appreciated card, book, etc.) anonymously.
28. Take flowers to a hospital ward and give them to someone who hasn’t had any visitors.
29. Take some cake, chocolates, flowers etc. to the neighbors, or a senior citizen nearby
30. Send someone a small gift anonymously
31. Make a cd of your favorite songs and give to a friend>
32. Donate one hour of your time if you offer a service for a living, or one product, or one seminar, or one class, or just one of whatever it is that you do as a gift to someone else.
33. Invite someone who is alone over for dinner.
34. Share a comic strip or something funny with someone else.
35. Leave a chocolate for a co-worker.
36. Write a note, send a e-greeting “just to say hello” to someone who might need a pick me up
37. Visit hospitals with smiles, treats and friendly conversation for patients.
38. Send a thank you to the employees at a hospital, or anywhere else that a cheerful thank might add a smile
39. Put a quarter in a parking meter that has expired
40. Write a thank-you note to a person from your past who has made a difference in your life.
41. Drop off a plant, flowers or apple pie at a public service organization or your neighbors house.
42. Send someone an animated greeting card on the internet.
43. Write a note to the boss of someone who has helped you, praising the employee.
44. Drop off teddy bear to police department to give to traumatized children
45. Copy a favorite recipe and give it to someone
46. Buy a copy of your favorite book and donate it to your local library or hospital
47. Write letters of appreciation to groups who are helping the community, the environment, etc.
48. Send a card to a friend or relative you haven’t seen for some time. Include a photo of yourself and/or your family.
49. Make a point of introducing yourself to someone you see all of the time but never say hello to.
50. Send an anonymous scratch card, lottery or theater ticket to someone you know – or a gift voucher, a funny card, a chocolate bar, or whatever you feel they would enjoy
51. If you know someone who is having a hard time financially, drop a $5, $10 or $20 note in an envelope, disguise your writing or type the envelope, and mail it to them.
52. Offer to baby sit
53. Donate clothes to goodwill
54. Put change in a charity change bottle
55. Bring cookies or some snack to work for office
56. Drop off cookies at a random establishment
57. Tape some change to a payphone with a card saying it is for whoever needs it
58. Write anonymous, loving post-its for strangers to find.
59. Donate blood
60. Pay for the toll for the car behind you
61. Help a neighbor, family member weed or plant a garden.
62. Mow someone’s lawn, rake their leaves or shovel their snow
63. Leave a book at airport for someone waiting to read
64. Cook a family dish for a busy mom/father so she/he can take a break for a night
65. Pay for the meal of a person sitting by themself when you are eating out
66. Buy coffee for the person behind you
67. Volunteer time at a charitable organization
68. When you fill a click card for free coffee, free gift, etc… give the card to someone
69. If someone behind you in line at the store has fewer items let them go ahead of you
70. Help tutor a child
71. Volunteer to read to children at the library
72. Offer to change oil, change filter or such for a “non car” person
73. Walk around a park or public area picking up trash
74. Get some groceries for a financially struggling family
75. When you go out to dinner order a dessert to go and drop it off at a neighbors
76. Clean up gravestones at a local cemetery
77. Buy something for a stranger from their Amazon.com wishlist
    Link to blog: http://simplemarriage.net/the-40-day-random-act-of-kindness-experiment/

Lent Day 14:

My friend was recently featured in Rochester Magazine, for an article called "What I've Learned."

I liked the things she had to say about kindness, and also "who we are on our worst day rarely defines who we are on most days.  To be honest, I've had some bad days and made some not so great life decisions.  But, I know that we are sometimes remembered for the 1 bad thing we do in life, and not the 1000 other good things we did.  It's a fine ethical line, isn't it!?

When kindness is a reasonable option, choose kindness.

"I worked in the schools for six years as a school liaison, and I was always telling the kids to speak up, to protect one another in supportive voices, to be kind. On patrol one night, there was an intoxicated man walking about downtown at 3 a.m. He’d been out with friends—and we could've brought him to detox. We could’ve arrested him. Instead, we found his friends, made sure he’d be cared for, and brought him to that safe place."

Who a person is on their worst day rarely defines who they are most days.

"Addictions, drugs, alcohol, mental illness can make a person’s life difficult. As police officers, we’ve signed up to professionally deal with this—with people who need police help. But we also have to remember that this is a single moment in this person’s life. We all suffer from the human condition at times, and who this person is on their worst day rarely defines who they are most days."